Erena Oliver, Renovating Relationships

Business overview

Renovate Your Relationship

Early experiences shape our lives from the moment of conception. They impact our sense of belonging, self-worth, & our ability to connect with others. This influence doesn't stop with childhood; it shapes our entire journey.

When we're raised feeling safe, respected, and valued, we develop a positive reference library about ourselves and the world. In contrast, criticism, neglect, or ridicule create negative references, leading to disconnection and toxic behaviors in relationships.

Overwhelm is universal, but our response differs based on our early experiences. Those who grew up with support handle it better. They know they matter. Others seek external validation and often feel lost.

One of the deepest forms of loss is losing oneself. We spend a lifetime pleasing others, neglecting our needs. Overwhelm magnifies the feeling of insignificance.

It doesn't have to be this way. We can reframe our understanding using LifePrint & other tools I have available

Products and services I offer

Relationship Renovation

LifePrintOS

Trauma Informed Relaxation Massage Therapist

Energy Medicine Practitioner

Mentor/Coach

Why I'm in the Venus Network

To Connect with awesome, like-minded growth orientated women

To grow me

To grow my Biz

Testimonials

Working with you I felt safe, heard, understood, accepted, whole and that I was worthwhile.

One thing I love about how you work is that you always helped me to feel like you value me and enjoy spending time with me – I never felt judged, criticised, ashamed or blamed

My interactions with you always felt safe and sometimes surprised me with the honesty and 'realness' that we have between each other.
The biggest difference you made to my life apart from giving me my life back, was you constantly reminding me that I am ok - just as I am. That I am enough, that I am strong and that I can trust my instincts
You best qualities are your openness, your honesty, your ability to bring light and laughter alongside the tears and darkness and pain in a respectful way, your kindness, your truth
You are a genius at connecting my experiences, putting everything together, explaining and reinforcing what I need to hear and confirm at any given moment I have the resources and experiences to overcome my challenges without blame, criticism or judgment
I chose you because I needed something more than either a worldly counsellor or a 'just pray and everything will be alright therapy, or someone who made me bring up the past and rehash things.
I love how you defended me and showed me that some things are NOT as they should be, even when my 'damage' says otherwise.
You built me up, not just empty words. I know that I can be anything I need to be with you and that's ok. I also love that you 'growl me' if it is needed.
What surprised me was your willingness to be vulnerable and share with me. sometimes the topics that we could talk about I thought I never could, yet I felt safe, heard and respected.
I would encourage others to choose you because your values and integrity are strong - I know that you will speak truth regardless of circumstance

You are a genius because I always felt incredibly better each time I left – I felt grounded and balanced, you helped me regain focus and recognise when I am being manipulated

What is freaking awesome about your work is how we could explore alternative things but always find the connections through belief systems that were not healthy or safe for me and how you could explain them in empowering ways

You and your work are special because you can help to explain behaviours and reactions but not excuse them! Glitches are just that - glitches (speed bumps in the road - not further proof that I am a failure or am worthless). You can also be helpful for distance sessions when I could not come in person.

My point of difference

I have a nursing background, been married 30 years and have raised 3 awesome humans - one of whom we nearly lost @ 3months of age and was touch and go for 3 yrs.

I have experienced pre + post natal + clinical depression
I have experienced borderline personality disorder
I have experienced sexual abuse as a toddler + bullying at school
I have experienced various auto-immune disorders - Allergies, IBS, Chronic Fatigue, Fibro + MS
I have experienced a very dysfunctional + toxic marriage for 24 years

I have overcome ALL the above to be healthy and thriving and have restored my marriage to something beyond what I ever imagined possible